Dialogue With Your Inner-Self Worth

Excerpts from Soul Windows…Secrets From The Divine By Susan Z Rich

All dialogue changes come from a shift of perspective. When I was working with Emotional Addiction counseling clients, the self-confidence, worthiness and value shift I was looking for showed up and completely turned my practice around and how I was going to help re-imprint old negative beliefs one carry about themselves. I started using the phrase, ”you need to get a “Tude” about who you are and what you are if you are going to get what you want”. Of course, the inevitable question would be, “what is a Tude”? I would put my hand on my hip; stick out my chest and say, “attitude, attitude, girlfriend”! “ You have to believe YOU ARE ALL THAT and coming to the table with valuable stuff, not always looking and hoping that someone is going to bring you something valuable so you feel good about yourself!” I could see I was now starting to get somewhere with this new approach. I do so apologize to all the male readers in staying in the feminine gender, as I did have many male clients also. Obviously, when I had a male client I changed the approach just a little and put more testosterone into the delivery. What I finally began to see was the emotions and feelings of a new idea getting across to them. This was the new awareness I was looking for, it was ALL based on the feelings you have about yourself. Your childhood situations and the adults that decided your life choices when you were young formed the adult emotions you were now dealing with. Soul Windows open at specific emotional ages to bring about maturity and wisdom. They also start the process to help you un-do any childhood defenses. The agenda was to get you to embrace the feel good emotions about yourself, you would then know the difference between being a victim and being in charge of your life.

The next step to approaching this new Soul Window concept of inner talk, was to catalog client’s counseling sessions by age group. Since I completely embrace the belief that we write our life journey and we certainly do not arrive here without assistance, then we must have some kind of handbook we brought along with us. This is what that handbook looks like. We have energetic scheduled life cycle signals that go off within our etheric life field (and no, I am not talking about the so-called alien implanted chips that healers claim to find in their subjects, although anything is possible). These life cycle signals awaken and prompt us to make the necessary changes on our journey to grow and complete what we came here to do. Each one of these scheduled life cycle signals opens an imprinted portal, I call Soul Windows. This allows the dreaming soul to awaken and bring about the necessary life adjustments selected ages. Everyone and I mean everyone, goes through these soul life cycle changes. A meeting place where the soul looks through a window of changes ready to be made immediately or in the near future and is directly coached and guided by their Divine higher self. This is of course where free will comes into play. The divine self is always assisting in the creation of these Soul Windows, urging the soul to make change. Whether you choose that option of change is entirely up to you. I like to think of it as divine rah, rah cheerleading squad we set up before incarnation. The free will given us is always about whether the soul life choices are made from authentic joy or fearful doubt. We all came here to experience and accomplish our own agenda for the soul’s growth and humanity. This awareness has no separation between the soul and the divine intelligence known as God and many other wonderful names. The point to this journey is recognizing that home is within and not separate from the Oneness of All. God is not out there, life is not out there and we should not be looking for it out there. Everything is within and the Oneness within us. That is what we are here to sort out and embrace and learn what divine self-containment is.

Our journey neither begins nor ends with a goal but is completely about the experience. We are here to experience the emotions of everything until the feeling of being separate from the divine within us and separate from each other, are no longer felt by the soul. Whether that takes ten more lifetimes or a thousand, it is irrelevant to the divine self. The divine within will experience those emotions through us, expanding in awareness along with as we grow and evolve. In the that script we write for ourselves when we are between incarnations, we make then make our choices on how the journey is going to unfold. This game plan has all the design foundations of what we want to experience. The purpose of that life script is always about the soul finding resolution for a karmic imbalance of their own or others negating it to nothing. Depending on how deep the emotional imprinted imbalance is, it may take lifetimes. You and only you decide how long and what way the game is played out in your life journey. You pick the players, the storyline and the tools to help you learn what is needed. It is all you, your life is not a crap shoot rolled by some divine old guy being sitting in the heavens saying…”yeh, snake eyes on this guy”, “His life is going to be one miserable experience.” Just does NOT happen that way.

The players in your life journey are always from your familiar soul family, written to play different characters in many lifetimes. They are thrilled to help you and usually the part they play in your life is designed as a learning experience for them too. So do not be so fast to judge a parent, family member, partner or friend for causing you massive pain or harm in your life as everyone agrees to play out their roles for you, just like YOU asked them to. Sometime your worst nemesis is one of your dearest soul family members and is doing a great favor for you. You ask them to make you miserable to get the needed lesson or experience and they say they would be happy to, done deal. It is a dirty job but somebody has to do it for you. Soul Windows also allows you to recognize when a soul family contract is finished, and time to move on. Regardless if the lesson was gotten or not, you are always the one making the choice. Try to remember that lifetimes to the soul’s divinity is similar to taking on and off a set of clothes when worn and dirty and then putting on a fresh life. No big deal and it is that emotionally detachment that the soul neither judges a life experience as bad nor good; just a part you are playing out at that moment in divine time.

It is this concept, my clients had the hardest time accepting when they actually did choose their parents. Their reactions were either one of two…”I did not!” or “What the hell was I thinking?” But you did! The reason why a particular set of parents were chosen is for the genetic coding and to create the proper human experience for your soul’s learning journey. The soul will also choose whether they will have matriarchal or patriarchal mapping, meaning which parent you genetically bond with to help your experience unfold. You see the effects of a child’s genetic imprinted journey of self-discovery with comments of being a momma’s boy or daddy’s girl. A matriarchal child, will have the mother’s genetic heritage traits that soul needs to accomplish what is necessary to do in that lifetime. The reality of parenting is the matriarchal soul child really does not care who in their soul family the father is as long as the required genetics are there. The attachment to the mother is predominant in their feelings. It does not necessarily mean a harmonious agreement but an there is an unspoken bond between them, nonetheless.

The same rules apply to a patriarchal child, the genetics mapped from the father and the soul not placing much importance on which one from their soul family will be the physical vehicle to bring them into the world of humanity. It is just timing. When it comes to marriage and producing children, those life markers are like a big conveyor belt. If the energies and timing is right, they slip into that life slot. That is why you kind always draw in the same kind of imprinted partner type, different stories but still very similar. The Soul Window that opens during child bearing years make sure those partners become available. It dashes on the rocks the romantic and spiritual illusion of having the one ultimate soul mate in your life. My theory also does not make claim that a matriarchal child energetically mapped to the mother, does not have attachment to the father as they do. The parent not mapped to the child will experience love more on an environmental element rather than karmic coding. If they are there, loving and present, the child will bond. This is why you will have a child with a parent who has horrendous parenting skills, still preferring that parent regardless of the treatment they receive. On the other hand, you will have a parent that would do anything for their child and the child is are almost ambivalent about that parent. This sometimes explains when a divorce unfolds, a parent is able to walk away from nurturing their children while others fight to keep them in their lives at all cost. You can look at any family unit and see the matriarchal and patriarchal mapping with each child. It is all agreed upon before incarnation, so there are no bad guys or mistakes once the child has imprinted with a chosen parent. What done is done.

So what are the scheduled life cycle signals for? Well the obvious is to guide and direct the soul as it makes changes to the vehicle as it grows into maturity. These energetic life cycle signals opens the Soul Windows. The dreaming soul awakens and makes whatever choices for your next life cycle. Then energetically re-maps and directs the new beginnings. It is similar to having a new program downloaded into a computer. When the scheduled life cycle signal goes off and matches up with the current etheric life forces, it allows the soul to look through that Soul Window and see what changes are scheduled for the future. It is a plan of action that YOU wrote. It also allows the soul to make adjustments regarding those changes. That is what free will is about. At certain ages, these life cycle signals go off and you are compelled to do something new, think something new, feel differently about yourself, your life or you now want different things. If we did not have these scheduled life cycle signals to direct us, regardless of being physically grown up, we would still be in an immature state of mind and emotions stuck in a perpetual life rerun. I sometimes made that point with clients that without these life cycle signals, you would be seeing grandmothers still carrying around their Barbie doll as role models if not pushed for mature change. When that scheduled life cycle signal goes off, we outgrow the desires of one life cycle and want something different to be, to do, to have or accomplish. The Soul Windows are part of that handbook we came into this life with to help guide us through the journey we wrote but of course, once the incarnation veils drop, we do not remember how it was supposed to turn out.

‘Courage Sans Peur’ (Courage w/o Fear)
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If you are interested in learning more about these concepts, Soul Window life cycles and how it effects our experiences and choices. Helping you to understanding how to handle the emotions that come with them, you can also look up my book on Amazon called Soul Windows….Secrets From The Divine by Susan Z Rich. It may help you to see things from a different perspective.